fair or foolish

as the title suggests... this dilemma is about understanding oneself. 

blindness by compassion is a very real thing - you could find empathy for someone in any situation, bestowing forgiveness as if it were cheap, even though it comes from a place of infinite love. 

and so, where is the line? how do you know whether you are being fair or foolish, benevolent or blinded?

and, if you dig deeper, could you perhaps realize that you are just scared of being alone? scared to give anyone a reason to not be with you? fearful of the moment you have to look in your eyes and define yourself by the way you treat yourself? 

oh, dearest reader, what should you do? how do you find the truth?